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Memoirs of William Nelson Pendleton, D.D.,

rector of Latimer parish, Lexington, Virginia; brigadier-general c.s.a.; chief of artillery, army of northern Virginia.
  
  
  
  
  

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CHAPTER XLIX.
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CHAPTER XLIX.

NEW CHURCH BEGUN—VOYAGE TO HALIFAX AND ENGLAND—
DEATH OF MISS AND MRS. LEE—SECOND TOUR TO RAISE MONEY
—CONNECTION WITH DIOCESAN WORK—LETTERS.

In the early summer of 1872 the vestry thought they could
safely begin the building of the new church. The old one was
accordingly pulled down and preparations made for putting up a
stone one on the same lot, but farther back from the street. The
severe and prolonged financial depression which began soon
after prostrated the resources of the country to such an extent
that it was not until June of 1875 that the basement of the new


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building was ready for use. In the three years thus elapsing the
congregation was kindly permitted to worship in the Methodist
church on the morning of the first and the afternoon of the
other Sundays of each month. No charge was made for this
extension of Christian fellowship, but the vestry gladly contributed
out of their slender means several hundred dollars towards
the expenses of the Methodist congregation.

In the summer of this year a sea-voyage was prescribed for
Dr. Pendleton. His own slender means did not permit his going
farther than Halifax, Nova Scotia, whither he sailed, accompanied
by his daughter Lella. Through the instrumentality of Captain
Matthew F. Maury, Messrs. Allen, however, sent him a free passage
to and from Liverpool on one of their fine steamships, and
kind friends in Baltimore and New York generously made it
possible for him to make use of it in a short visit to England
and France. Both himself and daughter proved excellent sailors;
the weather was fine and the ocean travel yielded unmixed
pleasure. In London he was the guest of Rev. Dr. Tremlett, and
there, as elsewhere, met with great kindness. The number of
Southerners abroad prevented any feeling of loneliness; the entire
change and recreation proved of great benefit to his health,
and though not an enthusiastic sight-seer, he greatly enjoyed
visiting the scenes of historic interest to which he had access.
After climbing to the highest point possible on St. Paul's Church,
London, he was much amused at a stranger saying, "You must
be an American; only Americans make such foolish climbs."
On this journey his tendency to work showed itself. Sent
abroad to rest, he preached on shipboard, and again in England
where opportunity offered, and returning home much invigorated
and refreshed, soon began the preparation of his "Personal
Recollections of General Lee" formerly referred to. This he
first delivered in the chapel of Washington and Lee University,
at the request of the faculty, as a memorial address, on General
Lee's birthday, January 19, 1873, and afterwards repeated at
many points in the South for the benefit of the Memorial Church.
This exertion, added to such parochial work as he could perform
without any church, and the anxiety to get the new one in
habitable condition, together with causes of anxiety at home and
around him, proved very detrimental to his health, and several


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times during the next two or three years his life seemed ebbing
away.

In the spring of 1873, shortly before setting out on his Southern
tour, he performed the painful service of burying his valued
friend and parishioner, Commodore Maury. Among the sad
consequences of his death was the removal from Lexington of
his wife and daughters and the family of his son, Colonel R. L.
Maury. Dr. Pendleton's intercourse with them had been very
intimate and affectionate. The younger family had been inmates
of the parsonage for several years, and the breaking up of such
cordial associations was a great trial to the pastor and his
family.

In the late fall of this year additional sorrow came to Dr.
Pendleton and his household in the death of General Lee's
daughter Agnes, followed in three weeks by that of her honored
and beloved mother, Mrs. Mary Custis Lee. These Christian
women had, during their eight years' residence in Lexington,
endeared themselves to the community, to the church, and especially
to their pastor, whose hands they strengthened by love
and good works. The influence of the daughter helped to elevate
and refine all who came in contact with her, and her labors
among the poor and suffering brought whole families to the
chancel for baptism, while the mother, in her Christian fortitude
under constant suffering, her cheerful activity in laboring with
her hands for the church, although unable to stand or move
without assistance, and her unfailing sympathy with the sorrows
and joys of others, when her own pain, helplessness, and bereavement
might well have engrossed her thoughts, illustrated
what the faith of the Gospel can do to ennoble and purify true
womanhood. Mrs. Lee had been a fit helpmeet to her husband,
and after his death the desire to build the new church as he
would have thought worthy of the house of God, and to honor
his memory in so doing, became the ruling desire of her life.

In 1874, when the minds of Virginia churchmen were much
exercised on the growth of ritualism and the question of Prayer-Book
revision, Dr. Pendleton was a member of the committees
on these subjects, and took vigorous part in the discussion of
them, both with his pen and in the Council. In October of this
year he was present in New York during the General Convention,


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and frequently in consultation with the Virginia delegation, whose
position on the great questions of the day was in sympathy with
his own.

Dr. Pendleton to his wife:

". . . At 2.40 P.M. we left Baltimore per fast train for New
York. Dr. Minnegerode and Judge Parker, the first persons we
saw, made the trip agreeable. Came with them straight to this
hotel. Must probably stay here, costly as it is. A number of
friends here. Lella gone out, while I write, with Bishop and Mrs.
Whittle to the Church Congress for this evening. I concluded
not to face the rain, having taken last night a little cold in the
head. Saw the bishops, etc., in St. John's Chapel this morning.
Love to each one of you and to the young men and the boys."

In March of 1875 Dr. Pendleton found himself so enfeebled
by protracted illness that he requested the vestry to procure the
services of an assistant or associate rector, and desired them to
take half the sum hitherto paid himself to add to the salary for
such additional minister. On Trinity Sunday, 11th of June of
this year, the congregation had the happiness of again assembling
for worship in their own church, the basement of which had been
completed and fitted up through the exertion and self-denial of
themselves and generous contributions from outsiders. Dr. Pendleton
baptized four children, preached from Ps. cxxii. 1, "I was
glad when they said unto me, Let us go into the house of the
Lord," and administered Holy Communion.

In October the Convocation, of which Dr. Pendleton had for
nearly ten years been so active a member, met once more in the
new basement, and shortly afterwards the Rev. G. W. Nelson
became associate rector of the parish. The burden upon the
congregation of providing for the two ministers—five hundred
dollars and the parsonage for the rector and twelve hundred
dollars for the associate rector—was, however, so obviously beyond
their means that Mr. Nelson felt it his duty to resign after
holding the position a little more than a year.

Not long after this, in 1877, feeling greatly concerned for the
growth of the Church in Lexington and the outlying stations in


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the surrounding country, Dr. Pendleton requested the vestry to
secure as his assistant Mr. James R. Winchester, recently ordained
deacon. Mr. Winchester was an alumnus of Washington
and Lee University, had acted as lay-reader in Grace Memorial
Church for several years, and during his seminary vacations, and
had become a candidate for orders under the recommendation of
the vestry, who were very fond of him. To secure his services Dr.
Pendleton not only offered to furnish for him a home and board,
but requested the vestry to take from the six hundred dollars
paid himself two hundred dollars towards the second salary.
"In view of the great difficulty of providing for their large debt,
and the stringency of the times," the vestry did not find it expedient
to call an assistant, but assured their rector of "the gratification
with which they witnessed his heroic efforts to sustain the
burdens placed upon him," declared their "earnest wish to make
these burdens as light as possible," and that he would find the
congregation "satisfied with whatever ministrations his strength
was fully equal to. His own ability, with constant reference to
the preservation of his health, should be the measure of his
labors. Under the blessing of God these may be as effectual as
more elaborate efforts."

His regular "ministrations" from this time to the close of his
life consisted of one service and a sermon on Sunday, an afternoon
service and lecture on Wednesday, a service at the V. M. I.
every Thursday evening, communion on every first Sunday, and
three weekly services in Lent. For several summers after this
time the bishop, at his request, sent Dr. Pendleton a theological
student to help him as he thought best. The Rev. J. Thompson
Cole and the Rev. F. M. Burch assisted him in this way year
after year. Alternating with these young assistants he held service
during the summer months at Goshen, Glenwood, and
Balcony Falls, laying the foundations for the churches since
established at those points.

Work among the colored people also occupied him. A colored
Sunday-school flourished in his church for some years before his
death, and his daughter Rose taught a mission parish school for
young negroes in Lexington for several years, and only gave up
the work when funds to carry it on utterly failed.

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busy, helpful man, he added regular teaching of the boys in his
house, diligent attention to whatever could provide for the wants
or increase the comfort of his household, and untiring efforts to
secure money for completing the Memorial Church and the
monument for General Lee's tomb.

Valentine's recumbent statue was finished in 1875, brought to
Lexington, and securely stored until some suitable place to contain
it could be provided. General Pendleton preferred an independent
mausoleum, but the majority of the committee decided
to build the present structure in rear of the University Chapel,
and he became active in endeavor to have it finished.

In May of 1876, a few weeks after the death of Bishop Johns,
two requests for a division of the diocese were laid before the
Council,—one from West Virginia asked that it should be set
off as an independent diocese, and another desired that Virginia
itself should be divided by the line of James River into two dioceses.
To both of these propositions Dr. Pendleton was opposed
on the same grounds he had taken ten years before. West Virginia
became a diocese in 1877, and in 1878 the question of
further division was settled for the time by Bishop Whittle, who
declined to sanction it because he believed that a large majority
of the people of Virginia were opposed to it. In this year and
again in 1879 Dr Pendleton was active and energetic in conciliar
work, being a leading spirit in recommending to the Council
that the original voluntary Convocations, which had been
productive of so much good in the State, should not be superseded
by a canonical Convocation system, with metes and
bounds laid down by the Council, and also that the vestry law
in the diocese should not be changed. Both these recommendations
received the sanction of the Council.

Dr. Pendleton to his wife.

"My dear Love,—It is now a quarter to ten A.M., and by our
chamber fire, with breakfast done and things attended to and all
well, I scratch you off another note. . . . The day is pleasant
and you will have a comfortable ride, I hope. Your arrival at
' Oakland' will be a delight to all parties, and I enjoy it myself in
idea. The late pleasant weather is no doubt freshening up things
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"Lell and I finished tying up the raspberries yesterday, and
to-day John is cleaning up around them. As soon as that is
done he is to mulch the roses. The tomato-seed in your box
are coming up, I water them regularly.

"Yesterday was, you know, court-day, and there were crowds
of country people in town. Some one told me the fragrance in
the court-house was unendurable. A poor, bad negro woman
was on trial under charge of murdering her step-child, three
years old, and crowds of her race were in attendance."

". . . Dr. Madison asked me Saturday to administer to him
yesterday after the Holy Communion, and desired Dr. Barton
and Colonel Williamson to partake with Mrs. Madison and himself.
Accordingly, at five P.M., we had for him that sacred service.
He was sitting up, but coughed most distressingly. He
is in a calm frame of mind, with Christian trust decided and faculties
active and clear. The free play of his thoughts, the sweetness
of his disposition, and the freshness of his remarks, now
and then partaking of humor, and all pervaded by loving reliance
on the gracious Saviour, are most remarkable; indeed, not
less than beautiful and wonderful. . . .

"Late Saturday I was visited by a young McCown, that he
might ask me to take his place in opening the debate at the
Franklin that night on the question, 'Is the division of the
Christian Church into sects an evil?' He was on the affirmative,
and as that, on the whole, is my conviction, I agreed to take his
place accordingly. At 7.30 P.M. I was there,—all my preparation
for yesterday being done,—and when the question was
called, arose and proceeded to give the arguments in order for a
half-hour, holding my watch in my hand."

In February, 1879, Bishop Whittle addressed to the rectors
and vestries of the diocese a pastoral letter on a subject on which
Bishop Johns and himself had more than once instructed the
Council,—the introduction of innovations and novelties into the
.service in Virginia churches. Finding these instructions without
avail, the bishop now pronounced to his presbyters and their
congregations his "godly monition" and "godly judgment" that


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"the services of the Church should be conducted as prescribed
by the Rubrics in the Book of Common Prayer, without adding
thereto or subtracting therefrom," and going on to state that the
introduction into the Church of evergreens and flowers at Easter,
or of fruits, flowers, and vegetables on Thanksgiving-day, and
also the use of different-colored altar-, pulpit-, and desk-cloths
at different seasons in the ecclesiastical year, were "novelties,"
" innovations," and "new and strange things in the Church in
Virginia, and ought not to be done or allowed."

This letter created quite a ferment in the diocese. Fair-colored
altar-cloths, etc., were not widely used, but flowers at Easter had
for several years been placed in churches of the most conservative
tone. Among these was Grace Church, Lexington, and
it had become, there as elsewhere, a labor of love in the households
to provide plants for such decoration. Mrs. Pendleton
and her daughters had taken part in this movement with the
full approval of the rector. But he immediately acquiesced in
the bishop's decision, notified the congregation that he felt it his
duty to forbid any flowers at the approaching Easter service, and
at once began to use all his influence to strengthen the bishop's
hands. In the ensuing Council, when the whole subject came
before that body, he was one of the committee which declared
that the bishop had the right to regulate such matters of ritual,
and urged upon the clergy and laity that it was their duty to
yield "cheerful and willing obedience" to the bishop's views and
admonitions.

When in 1880 the subject of providing for increased episcopal
visitations, either by electing an assistant bishop or dividing the diocese,
was again brought before the Council, Dr. Pendleton was an
earnest advocate for an assistant, and one of the committee which
recommended that the General Convention be requested to give its
consent to such an election, on the plea of extent of territory; and
very great was his disappointment when this request was refused
by that body. Not foreseeing that in the next three years the
temper of the general Church would have changed and Virginia
allowed an assistant bishop, the venerable presbyter now began to
study up the question of division and settle in his own mind what
dividing line would best promote the interests and preserve the
evangelical tone of the Virginia Church. In investigating this


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subject he was untiring in collecting information as to the needs,
claims, and resources of the different portions of the diocese.
It is not a little significant of the wisdom of his final decision
that, when in 1891 the committee appointed the previous year
met to determine some line of division to present to the Council,
they unanimously agreed to recommend one presented by Dr.
Hunckel, of Charlottesville, which was the very line suggested by
Dr. Pendleton and drawn by his own hand. Not only in this
direction did he, as it were, foresee and voice the judgment of
his brother churchmen, but he not infrequently declared that if
Virginia could secure an assistant bishop, "Randolph, of Baltimore,"
was the man to whom his vote would be given. Again
and again during these years he tried to get the Council to meet
in Lexington, and was greatly pleased when such meeting was
agreed to in 1882. Circumstances, however, prevented this, and
the bishop appointed Richmond instead.

Dr. Pendleton to his wife, absent on a visit to her brother in
Hanover County.

". . . I am entirely well, and have been ever since you left.
My course of life day and night is precisely as you witness it,
except for missing you all the while. The girls take your place
in handing me the well-meant though disagreeable draughts, and
I am as comfortable as I can be without you. . . . If you meet
with any of the residents around give them my love. It is not
very likely that meeting between them and myself will occur
again till we are removed to a 'better home.'"

". . . Delighted shall we be to have you at home again. But
don't hurry, now you are one of the circle not likely to be all
together again soon, if ever, this side of Paradise.

"The forest hues you describe I well recollect. We have the
like here; very beautiful Mrs. Graves, Mrs. Judge Lea's niece,
of the Baptist Mission in China, told me to-day this forest coloring
in autumn not only occurs nowhere else, but can't be realized
as actual by residents elsewhere. She is preparing cases of the
leaves to take with her for persons to see."


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"Lell wrote yesterday, and therefore as I was busy on my
sermon I did not, and besides other duties I had to acknowledge
Mr. Davis's letter, and let him know I will do the best I can in
furnishing, as he requests, the names of artillery officers he
wishes to mention in his book. . . . They are shingling the
house, and making both a noise and a litter. Lella had the
parlor put in winter dress yesterday, and will go on fixing as she
can. They are busy with new carpets and old. The new one
bright and pretty. . . .

"Colonel Johnston is elected president of the institution in
Louisiana where Colonel McCullough is. We shall be grieved
to lose them from our circle. The Peabody place will most
likely be given to some Northern man. Small chance have
Southerners under radical supremacy. But I don't intend to
touch on politics. In the end, the Judge of all the earth will
have justice done, and for that we must wait. . . . Our chamber
nearly fixed for the winter. Very snug. The Franklin stove
from room over the parlor brought down for us. Doesn't smoke!
Many blessings, indeed, to be thankful for."

Ex-President Jefferson Davis to General W. N. Pendleton.

"My dear Friend,—I am deeply grieved to hear of your recent
illness, and write at once earnestly to request you not to tax
your strength by efforts to comply with my late request for information
on military affairs. We are too old to disregard monitions,
and I love you too dearly to be willingly the cause of over-exertion
on your part.

"With earnest prayers for you and yours,

"I am ever faithfully,
"Jefferson Davis."

"My dear Friend,—It is true that I have not often written
to you. It is equally true that you have never been long absent
from my memory, and never removed from the high esteem and
tender affection with which I have for many years regarded you.


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"It was not, however, to give you this, which I hope is an unnecessary
assurance, that I now write to you. In the preparation
of the work on which I am engaged I wish to illustrate it
by a group of the most distinguished and worthy officers in that
arm of the service of which you were the head.

"Will you send me the names of those you would thus distinguish
not only in the Army of Virginia, but elsewhere, and
whether commanding divisions or battalions or batteries of artillery?
We cannot hope to rescue all the brave and meritorious
from the forgetfulness which naturally results from the onward
movement of the busy world, but I wish to do something for
those who deserve most, but perhaps did not acquire all the distinction
they merited. I shall not attempt to imitate 'Old Mortality,'
but I have a great respect for the character saved from
oblivion by Sir Walter Scott.

"Mrs. Davis joins me in kindest remembrance and best wishes
for you and yours.

"Ever truly your friend,
"Jefferson Davis."

"Rev. and dear Friend,—I received your note and subsequently
the fulfilment of the promise it contained of your letter
of the 24th instant. Did I not know that the labor you performed
in preparing the sketch was for a cause as near to your
heart as my own, I would apologize to you for the tax my
application imposed.

"I have not contemplated anything like a minute account of
campaigns and battles, because I knew that could, and I hoped
would, be better done by those who were actively engaged in
them. I wish, in general terms, to correct some prevailing errors
and to do justice to some from whom it has been withheld; also
to show under what great disadvantages we labored from want
of the material of war and some improvident waste of the little
we had.

"In this last connection, I would be glad if you could give me
a summary statement of our losses in heavy guns by the retreat
of the Army of the Potomac and that of the Peninsula.

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the condition and possibilities of affairs at Dalton when you visited
it, say within the next six weeks, and could let me have it, I
should be very grateful.

"I have devoted most of my time and attention to the vindication
of our cause and conduct. Not being a Bookwright, I am
very apprehensive that I shall fall very far short of fulfilling the
wish which stimulated me to write. The assistant whom I employed
to collect material for the narrative portion of the work
has utterly failed me. He is, however, entitled to the excuse of
finding those to whom I directed him to make application either
negligent or unwilling to incur the responsibility of a reply, so
that when I expected it to be all ready, I have had to go to work,
as I would have done, but for that dependence, long ago, and at
the last moment find myself hurried.

"Our people, after making sacrifices and performing heroic
deeds unsurpassed in any age or country, seem—like the ship
which, having braved the storm, goes down in calm—to be now
ready to surrender their birthright for less than a mess of pottage.

"My efforts to vindicate their cause will find, therefore, little
favor with this generation. Perhaps they may arraign me for
disturbing the harmony about which they prate, and of which
the only evidence is to be found in their humiliating concessions.
If, therefore, my object had been to gain applause, reason would
teach me that I had better burn what I have written than have
it printed.

"I have not lost my faith in the people, if they could only be
aroused to the use of their sober judgment. But grinding poverty
on one side and gilded wealth on the other have worked the
corruption which preceded the downfall of all ancient republics;
and the body of the people, whose only interest must be in good
government, run idly about, as in Athens, to ask, 'What news?'
In the eternity of truth and the government of the world by
Him who 'doeth all things well' rests the only hope which is left
to me. I do not expect to see a restoration, but shall die hoping
—almost believing—that it will come, and that the example of
our forefathers will in some future generation be emulated by
their posterity.

"I ardently desire to see you again, and to hear again from


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your lips such prayers as you offered before we shared our narrow
bed near Frazier's farm and Malvern Hill.

"My wife joins me in cordial wishes for you and yours.

"Affectionately your friend,
"Jefferson Davis."