Tzŭ-lu said, "If a person treats me well, I will also treat him
well. If a person does not treat me well, I will not treat him well."
Tzŭ-kung said, "If a person treats me well, I will also treat
him well. If a person does not treat me well, I will bring him
around. It is simply a matter of adapting oneself."[2]
Yen Hui said, "If a person treats me well, I will also treat
him well. If a person does not treat me well, I will still treat him
well."
The three disciples differing among themselves in what they
advocated, asked the Master about it. He said, "What Yu
advocates[3]
is appropriate to the Man and Mai barbarians; what
Tz`ŭ advocates is appropriate to friends; what Hui advocates is
appropriate to relatives."
The Ode says,[4]
This man is all vicious,[5]
And I consider him my brother!