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Illustrations

  • Table Manners Betray One's Bringing-Up . . . 22
  • Hat?—Toupee?—or Book? . . . 22
  • Park Benches and Their Uses . . . 22
  • Travelling with a Player Piano . . . 23
  • A Child, a Banana, a Hard-Boiled Egg . . . 23
  • A Crude Bridegroom . . . 30
  • A Best Man's Blunder . . . 30
  • The Pun "De Rigueur" . . . 31
  • The Young Man Doesn't Know How to Drink . . . 31
  • Ignorance of Sporting Terms Betrays the "Cockney" . . . 46
  • Correct Bathing Costumes for Ladies . . . 47
  • Proper Attitude Towards the Hostess' Furniture . . . 47
  • The Man of Refinement Controls His Emotions . . . 62
  • Comparative Advantages of the Pen—the Phone . . . 63
  • Hints on Homely Young Ladies at a Dance . . . 78

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  • The Law of Reprisal in Etiquette . . . 79
  • Chivalry or the Instinct of Self-Preservation? A Fine Point . . . 94
  • An Inexperienced "Gun" . . . 95
  • Packets of Old Letters Make Acceptable Wedding Gifts . . . 110
  • Correct Methods of Using Table Hardware . . . 110
  • It Is Sometimes Best to Be Frank . . . 111
  • "Who Shall Write First?" . . . 126
  • Correct Negotiations for a Seat in the Subway . . . 142
  • Old Fashioned Letter and Writers vs. Perfect Behaviour . . . 143
  • What to Avoid in Crests . . . 143
  • Care Should Be Exercised in the Choice of Post-Cards . . . 158
  • Cards Concealed about the Person Betray the Boor . . . 159
  • It Is Not the Custom to Comment on the Quantity of Soup Consumed by a Guest . . . 174
  • False Teeth Should Remain in the Mouth throughout any Given Dinner . . . 175

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  • Vision and Ingenuity in Courtship . . . 190
  • "Say It with Flowers" . . . 191
  • Etiquette without Tears, Mother's Artful Aid . . . 206
  • Illustrating the Inestimable Value of Stewart's Lightning Calculator . . . 207
  • A Word of Warning and Encouragement . . . 222

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