Familiar letters and poems on several occasions | ||
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To SILVIO.
On his Marriage.
My Friend, I hail thee to the State,
For Man by Heav'n design'd;
And hope that in a pleasing Form,
A pleasing Soul you'll find.
For Man by Heav'n design'd;
And hope that in a pleasing Form,
A pleasing Soul you'll find.
Lift not your Hopes too high, nor dream
Of Bliss unmix'd below,
But when the blooming Rose you pluck,
Expect a Thorn of Woe.
Of Bliss unmix'd below,
But when the blooming Rose you pluck,
Expect a Thorn of Woe.
Wishes immoderately rais'd,
A moderate Joy refuse;
So the proud Sight disdains a Flow'r,
Amidst unbounded Views.
A moderate Joy refuse;
So the proud Sight disdains a Flow'r,
Amidst unbounded Views.
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Know thine ownself, and ev'ry Day
Thine Imperfections learn;
So shall an ever-candid Eye,
Thy Partner's Faults discern.
Thine Imperfections learn;
So shall an ever-candid Eye,
Thy Partner's Faults discern.
In the first Days of nuptial Life,
Discreetly fix your Sway;
By strict, but gentlest Methods rule,
And joyful she'll obey.
Discreetly fix your Sway;
By strict, but gentlest Methods rule,
And joyful she'll obey.
Then shall your future Moments smile,
Without a ruffling Strife,
While you adorn the Husband's Sphere,
And she the Sphere of Wife.
Without a ruffling Strife,
While you adorn the Husband's Sphere,
And she the Sphere of Wife.
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But never through the Pride of Pow'r
Be deaf to her Advice,
Enjoy the Counsels of her Heart,
And Wisdom of her Eyes.
Be deaf to her Advice,
Enjoy the Counsels of her Heart,
And Wisdom of her Eyes.
Before your Servants ever shew
A wise unfeign'd Respect;
Nor let them from your Pattern dare
To treat her with Neglect.
A wise unfeign'd Respect;
Nor let them from your Pattern dare
To treat her with Neglect.
Within the Circle of her Cares
Affect no ruling Part;
Let her be Mistress of your House,
That's Mistress of your Heart.
Affect no ruling Part;
Let her be Mistress of your House,
That's Mistress of your Heart.
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By Zeal for her immortal Bliss
Your pure Affection prove,
That he who join'd your Hands below,
May join your Souls above.
Your pure Affection prove,
That he who join'd your Hands below,
May join your Souls above.
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Familiar letters and poems on several occasions | ||